THE RELATIONSHIP RESET

A day to see your relationship more clearly

Virtual half- or full-day intensives to understand what’s happening underneath your conflicts, identify what matters most, and get clear on what comes next.

For people of any sexual orientation, gender, or relationship configuration who know their relationship needs attention and want focused help.

Casey Tanner

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WHAT HAPPENS IN YOUR RESET

Pre-assessment

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Each of you completes an individual questionnaire before we meet, so I can come in with context, questions, and hypotheses.

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Pattern Mapping

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We map the cycles, triggers, and reactions you keep getting pulled into, and what may be happening underneath them. I’ll tell you what I’m noticing, where I think you’re getting stuck, and what may be easy to miss from inside the relationship.

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Targeted Practice

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We identify 2-3 areas to focus on, and practice tools, conversations and experiments to help move you forward. We end by deciding what skills to practice, what dynamics to keep exploring, and what to bring into ongoing couples therapy, when appropriate.

The Expansive Group

WHY INVEST IN A RESET?

Weekly couples therapy can be deeply valuable, but a 50-minute session has limits.

Instead of spending the first several sessions orienting, you’re paying for a focused process designed to help you understand what the work actually is—so the time, money, and energy you spend afterward can be more intentional.

Already in couples therapy? I can collaborate with your therapist!

CHOOSE YOUR SUPPORT

Half-Day Reset—$2500

Best for one central question or pattern, and includes:

  • Individual pre-assessments
  • My review and preparation before we meet
  • Your 3.5 hour, live Relationship Reset
  • Identification of your 2–3 most important priorities
  • Targeted practices and next steps
  • Recommendations and referrals for continued support, when appropriate
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Full-Day Reset—$4500

Best when several issues are intertwined

Includes everything in the half-day Reset, with a full 6 hours for deeper assessment, relationship mapping, reflection, guided practice, and synthesis. You'll also leave with a personalized written Relationship Roadmap.

If you're not sure which option makes the most sense for you, I'll make a recommendation. Sliding scales are available based on need.
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The Expansive Group

When a Reset IS useful

  • You're seeing the same conflict on repeat
  • There are differences in the amount you desire sex, or the type of sex you desire
  • You're going through a relationship transition (amove in, a break up, family building, entering non-monogamy, one partner coming out, etc.)
  • You're recovering from a wound or betrayal
  • Previous trauma is impacting the relationsjhip
  • Couples therapy feels stuck or unfocused
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Ready to reset?

You don’t have to know exactly what’s wrong to know you want something to change. Your application helps Casey ensure The Reset is a thoughtful fit for you.

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